Often times, as a people, we will carry and place blame on things that do not matter. We seek to find the answer and to figure out what we did wrong to deserve this shame. This is an issue that is only magnified with parents of children with Autism. Guilt and shame are emotions that can feed on the fear of the unknown, and having a new diagnosis of Autism can bring about fear. This fear is real, and should not be taken lightly, but YOU did not do anything to "deserve" this